HaIr BloG:: NoVEmBEr 2010

To summarize my journey so far (i.e. 11 months of healthy hair care) in two pics:

I know I rushed through the blogs without explaining what exactly I learned about my hair and what exactly I did to it to get it where it is now (for those of you who are curious), but I promise as I document my hair journey from now on out I will explain. I have in Senegalese twists right now (have had them in since December and will be taking them out in March in about 2 weeks) so right now there are no pics. I will be back soon to outline the whole healthy hair process, I promise, lol.

HaIr bLoG: AuGuSt 2010

      I got my hair relaxed today after a 12 week stretch (was supposed to be 13 weeks but I was experiencing some breakage that worried me so I did a strong protein treatment on Tuesday and relaxed today). As usual I went to the salon because I don't self-relax. Unfortunately the salon I usually go to had been closed down so I went to a new place today. Before the stylist relaxed, I told her that I hadn't relaxed for 3 months and she told me that I shouldn't have waited that long and that for hair like mine I should wait two months tops, but I just smiled to myself its amazing how few people outside of this site know healthy hair care practices. Anyhow, she used Affirm for sensitive scalp (because almost every time I did my relaxer before my HHJ, I'd burn like paper, especially because previous stylists used to use things like coarse and super on me =p). Then she washed it out, put in a post relaxer treatment, neutralized, then put me under the dryer with a DC (Affirm 5 in 1 I think, I recognized the smell). Wrapped my hair, set me under the dryer for a bit, blow dried, trimmed (about 1/2-3/4 of an inch off) and then flat ironed (Lots of heat but I haven't used heat in my hair since my last relaxer in May and a month after that in June). And so...here are the results:

Relaxed after 12 weeks

       I'm loving my heath and loving the little length I got. Just a teensy wit disappointed that my hair seems farther along from my goal of SL/Full SL by Nov/Dec 2010 than I'd anticipated. But I will persevere. This was my longest and I would say my most successful stretch. This is because by the time I was ready for this stretch I had a set regimen and I had products that were working for my hair, unlike the first 4 months of my journey where it was pretty much trial and error with so many products. But for the last few months I've been able to narrow down to the products that make my hair sing, and so I'm looking forward to what I might get out of my next stretch. It's been 7.5 months since starting my journey and my hair has flourished in that time!

In the Beginning...December 2009

 I've decided to document my Hair journey as a part of my blog. This will most definitely ensure that it's kept active since I actively engaging with my hair on a regular basis. I've been on my hair journey for more than a year now so I can't quite restart from the beginning, I'll just repost some old blogs from last year, starting with this one from January 2010:

Ever since the "incident"--where I left my hair in braids for 3 months without touching it with anything--that led me to the knotted mess, followed by a crazy detangling process and finally a cut to ear length from shoulder length hair, I've become interested in black/afro-textured hair care. Coming from the capital of Ghana where the hair salon was walking distance and getting a nice wash and set cost about $7 (due to the difference in currency), I had always taken hair care for granted. But in 2006, I came to college in the United States and no longer had the luxury of affordable weekly salon visits and so my hair, which was relatively healthy, began to fall apart, and the idea to braid it in order to release stressing over it, ended up back firing.

I had always been relying on professionals to make my hair look "good" but once I was no longer in the salon (or my hair connoisseur friend's chair) and my hair was left in my hands, things always sort of fell apart. In August last year, I moved into Senior housing and noticed that one of the girls I lived with was always doing something to her hair; washing it every week and walking around a lot in her bathrobe and a plastic cap. Ignorant at the time I guess, I just thought she made too much of a fuss about her hair until I realized one day when she let her hair down, as she usually wore it up in a bun, that her hair was thicker and longer than I'd seen it in May when we'd had a class together. At first I thought that it was because she was of Afro-Cuban and Trinidadian descent, whilst I was African (a lot of my friends believe that our hair is too "hard" and the only reason why our hair will "never be as nice" as African American/ Caribbean people is because they have "white" blood in them).

One day she was showing me a picture of Oprah's natural hair, without the weave, on the internet on Long Hair Care Forum (LHCF) and telling me about how the site gave tips on how to grow long hair. But I didn't check it out until about three weeks ago, and then started doing research about other sites and came across Black Hair Media Forum ( BHM Talk Cafe ), Grow Afro Hair Long (I used their advice on braids maintenance) and then to a couple of youtube videos and finally to Hairlista then KISS (There are a lot more, but these are the ones I have used regularly since the start of my journey). And I must admit I am so glad I did.

Finding out information about black hair inspired me to do two things. Firstly stop relying on others to "fix" my hair and take care of it myself, and love it like I would love anything else that's mine. And secondly repel the myth that Africans have "hard," "bad" or any ugly and negative word associated with our hair (and therefore ourselves) in part of the many steps that we need to take to finally love ourselves.